Therapeutic Massage
& Energy Healing in Asheville, NC
When the pain feels unbearable, I will bear it with you.
We can share holding it, witnessing it, making space for it, asking it questions. I will feel it with you. I will guide your body to notice, to question its patterns, to plant seeds for new ones with tenderness and compassion.
I think of myself as a Pain Doula.
Kindness and love are at the heart of this process. Not force, not getting through with gritted teeth, certainly not denial or “focusing on the positive,” not moving on, not even turning it into something creative. Some of those might be helpful later.
But first, we see it.
We meet the pain exactly where it is as if we are looking at a three hour-old baby. We cradle it as though it were sacred.
Light a candle
with me
I say “we” because I am not interested in doing this work TO you while you check out.
If that is what you would like, please take yourself to a relaxing spa and get pampered. Nothing wrong with that. The work with me will hopefully be relaxing, but it will not be easy.
When we light those intention candles at the beginning of each session, we enter a commitment to face whatever comes up in the ways that we are capable. We step up to it, dive into it, we don’t turn away if it is uncomfortable, we don’t shut down when it asks us to stretch past where we’ve gone before. This is life affirming work, so we face the darkness in order to come to the light.
meet Nelly
I’m queer, a single mother, bodyworker, immigrant, artist, and community member who is working to heal and restore balance in myself and others every day.
I use my hands to help unlock the healing powers of the incredible human body, listening fiercely and without judgment, creating a quiet, cocooned space where the body can relax and remember how to heal itself.
My work is rooted in creativity, ritual, and deep presence—each session uniquely crafted to draw out the sacred, transformative potential already living within you.
All of the tools of my practice
are available to you
Sessions may include a blend of supportive approaches such as:
Energy balancing
Therapeutic massage
Guided meditation
Sacred ritual elements
Distance healing sessions
Each session is designed to support regulation, relaxation, and overall balance.
A Different
Healing Philosophy
“The healer” has never been the one to save you…or even heal you.
They are the ones who have opened themselves to the unspeakable depths of collective pain through their own trauma and shadow work. Through that somatic understanding they can help guide you to work through the pain with your own inner knowing, because they know how to hold space for it and because you already have everything it takes.
"Abbondanza" is the word for abundance in Italian.
I am drawn to this word for its joy, its fullness - because I can't say it without singing a little. It has DANZA in it right there for our dancing pleasure! It is radiant and full of hope and color. It is endless. It is present.
The world we live in is abundant. When we choose to focus on gratitude instead of fear, we realize there is a whole universe full of wonder and abundance––abbondanza!
There are everyday people doing good deeds every day. The human spirit longs for and aches towards connection, towards kindness, towards wholeness.
Why Abbondanza?
We can no longer afford to carry the generational trauma we have inherited forward to our children.
It is time to shed old tired ways, to work through and grieve, and to intentionally carve new patterns that embrace healing available to us when we tap in.
There is abundance in the universe. Reach out and live it, breathe it in, see it.
Ask for it.
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